Good and Bad, Yin and Yang, Truth and Lies everything in life that you do has a equal and opposite reaction, so it is said. Life is not something which is to be taken as a joke, but neither is it to be taken seriously. Such statements always made wonder what makes a person do certain things. Why does an individual do good deeds ? Is it because he is selfish or is it because he deeply cares for the well being of others ?
Humans are one of those species that live on this planet who’s behavior is so complex that we their more amount of streams and sub-streams of science which deal with it, then the bones in our own body. Yet when you think about it, a human behaves simply on what he see’s, hears and feels. For example, have you ever witnessed a child who’s around 5-6 years old ? The actions that make him smile are the same ones that make an adult smile too. Yet the child does not think about whether the action is for good or evil, but the adult always thinks whether the action was for the betterment of his or not.
I think this is where the problem lies. We human beings are so engrossed in our routine mundane life that we forget the smaller parts of life which give happiness do not have a reason. Every single time a person smiles at us, our mind immediately starts thinking WHY ? Is this question really reasonable, should it be really asked, instead can’t we be just plain old happy and go ahead and live our lives. Maybe more so we should just start smiling at others too, sure at the start the other person could think WHY ? But am sure later on that smile could make a difference to that person too.
Why suddenly this lecture on smiles, humans and human psychology. Well there was an incident today, an office in my building caught on fire yesterday night. There whole office was burnt down with valuable data being burnt up. Yes it is sad, but the reason why I’m writing about it in such a way is, the family who owned the business where smiling. They smiled to everyone who came up to ask what happened, the smile was because people where genuinely concerned about them.
Life is difficult and in such trying times does life give you lessons to learn. Putting up a smile may not undo the past, but it may certainly help you face the future with a much needed light. Even in the darkest corners of every room there’s a small ray of light beaming in. A smile does the same, it shows hope, affection, love, respect, honor, ability and most importantly happiness. Life is too short to mull over the past, and too long to lessen hope and move along.
“Even though achieving balance is the difficult, holding a smile during the search for balance makes the journey worthwhile. Keep smiling and make others smile, make someone’s day abnormal so that he may enjoy the happiness of smiling without a reason. Cause someday somewhere someone needs to smile.”
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TMS.Shammie
(Tejas Shah)
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